So, I’ve been out with a couple guys the past few weeks. Did the friend sex a few times. I realized that I really don’t want to start dating someone, especially a guy that I don’t already know.
There’s so much about me to tell and share with someone, that I just don’t know where to begin. The past couple of years have been crazy, but the past 41 have been crazier. Honestly, the friend sex was perfect, because we’ve known each other for awhile, but I just can’t have no-strings with that person and I have such a high sex drive, I think it was making him anxious. I don’t want that, so I just stopped pursuing it. I also don’t want to ruin whatever relationship we DO have.
Physically, I have a couple of men I can call on if need be. I also have two drawers full of toys.
But then I look ahead to the next several months, and my film needs to be my priority. I can’t let anything get in the way. Of course, having a partner to support me along the way would be nice, but it’s a lot to ask for in a new “relationship.” I’m going to be gone for a month, and that’s also not easy for a man to deal with. Unless there’s a lot of trust and a strong foundation, that trip could ruin a good thing.
So, I’m not looking to date anyone right now that doesn’t already know something about me. I just don’t think it’s fair, especially right now.